This week’s Mental Sunshine is all about your comfort zone. It’s nice to be comfortable, right? So we could all be forgiven for thinking that if we stay within our comfort zone, that’s guaranteed to bring Mental Sunshine our way. Actually, the opposite is true. When we stay within our comfort zone, it shrinks around us. When we do something that takes us […]

Are you in need of a bit of Mental Sunshine to brighten things up a bit as we head into the weekend? This week’s tip is to embrace uncertainty. Typically, the human brain hates uncertainty. It will do anything to avoid it, often sabotaging situations just so that it can know what’s happening. It encourages us to avoid anything different –

How is your week going so far? I send these emails out each week in the hope of bringing a little Mental Sunshine into your day. It makes me feel good to think I might have brightened someone else’s day. That’s what this week’s email is all about – making it about someone else. We are all the star of our own epic movie. We walk

This week’s Mental Sunshine is all about listening to music – but I don’t mean your favourite band at all! In fact, the kind of music I’m going to suggest you listen to has no words… and probably won’t have a tune you can hum along to either. Have you heard of binaural beats before? Binaural beats are a phenomenon that happens when a different

With the equinox last weekend, and all the rain these past few days it’s feeling a lot more like autumn. Well, we might be missing the bright sunshine outside, but this email is all about bringing you some Mental Sunshine to improve your week. This week, it’s a tip I heard about from an interview

This week’s Mental Sunshine follows on from last week’s email – which was all about changing your thinking to consider, What could go right? The other side of thinking about what might go well in the future is the part where you look back over the day’s events. Be honest – when someone asks you

Tomorrow is Friday 13th – A superstitious day for some. This got me thinking… If something goes wrong on Friday 13th, people will often blame it on the unlucky date. Some may even wake up tomorrow morning and think, Oh, Friday 13th… what’s going to go wrong today… In fact, many of us have that

Can you believe we’re in September already? Time flies on by, doesn’t it! This week’s Mental Sunshine is a bit… nebulous. It’s one of those things it’s hard to pin down – but once you get it, you understand. This week we’re talking about awe. I don’t mean that overused word, AWESOME Rather, I mean

How’s that little negative voice in your head? You know the one, the one that tells you you’re an idiot because you forgot that thing. The running commentary in your head, keeping you updated on just how much of a loser you are, and how everything is going to go badly wrong, really soon. If

How are you doing today?Ok, tell the truth: how did you answer that question? Rubbish Tired Stressed Not Bad… Those are the standard responses, right?This week’s Mental Sunshine (no 171) is about interrupting those standard responses.Listening to the language we use… and changing it.Making it more positive.I’m inviting you to conduct a little experiment with